A small, guarded roomfor people doing IVF.
A private WhatsApp group, whatever your family looks like. A person reads every sign-up before the invite goes out.
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Who you’ll meet.
Members are at every stage, from still deciding to holding a newborn. These are the conversations people come for.
Find others at your stage
Deciding, on injections, in the two-week wait, or holding a newborn: talk to people in the same week of the journey, not just the same postcode.
Hear from people who've been through it
Honest answers from members who are two steps ahead of you: what they'd repeat, what they'd skip, what nobody warned them about.
Meet locally, if you want to
Some members arrange to meet locally. Meet in public, and only when you both want to.
Where members are
- Researching and deciding
- Preparing: tests, donor, money
- In treatment now
- Pregnant
- Already a parent
What people come for
- Meeting people at my stage
- Hearing from people who've done it
- Local meetups
- Talking donor conception
- Space for solo parents specifically
Nobody wanders in.
People going through fertility treatment are a target for clinics and supplement sellers. Four things about how this group works, each of which we have to keep true.
Every member is checked by a person
Every member applied, was read by a person, and was approved individually.
Invites are personal and short-lived
Each invite works once, only with the email it was sent to, and expires after seven days. Even then, an admin approves every join request inside WhatsApp.
No clinics, no brands, no recruiters
No selling, no scouting for patients, no influencers building an audience. If you work in the sector, tell us when you apply.
We ask for as little as we can
No phone number is ever collected by this website. No address, no date of birth, no medical records. What you write is deleted on the schedule in our privacy policy.
The group runs on a messaging app, which means members can see each other's phone numbers. We cannot change that, and we would rather you knew now than found out later. As group admin, we can see members' phone numbers in WhatsApp when we approve join requests and match them to applications. We do not copy them anywhere else. If that is not a trade you want to make, this is the wrong group, and that is a completely reasonable place to land.
Group rules
What is said here stays here.
No screenshots, forwarding or quoting. Talk about your own experience with whoever you like, but never share anything that could identify another member. This is the rule that makes every other one worth having, and breaking it is the fastest way out.
Read all 8 rules, and what gets someone removed